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To Manhattan (KS)

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Today, I am rolling out of the office and taking my “show” on the road up to Manhattan, KS. I am visiting with students and friends from our church attending school up at K-State. The plan is to get there, grab some lunch, and come back to Hutch.

I posted yesterday some thoughts on Facebook. My trip today is even further proof that there is a different dynamic at work when I visit these people face to face. You see if I was a friend of theirs on Facebook or sent them an email saying “I’m hoping your doing well” those would be kind gestures. However, when I actually go visit face to face with them, they feel cared for and I am able to communicate so much more effectively my love, concern, appreciation and knowledge of their lives and circumstances. These are things that Facebook can’t really deliver on to this degree of depth.

Anyway, you can tell I’m still ranting away on this issue. It will probably never die as long as I’m alive, but it seems good today to be able to visit with friends and see how God is working in their lives. Pray that I have a productive visit with them all.

Thoughts on Facebook…

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I’ve had people nagging me for some time to join Facebook. For me personally, it is time consuming enough simply to get posts on a blog and I find my blog helpful in helping me catalog helpful things I’ve found online. It also makes it easy to recommend a site to someone to have them visit my site, where I’ve linked to it.

Facebook is more than these things, though. A recent report said the average user of Facebook spends 3 days messing with it over the course of a year. Couple this with a recent report from the Pew Internet and American Life Project, which says that their can be some positives in new media.

Here’s the rub for me: the Bible commends the local church as the community in which life is to function. People will, for instance, get on Facebook and communicate for everyone what their struggles are or what’s happening in their lives, but not even communicate those things in a small group or with the Elders or people in the local church (unless those people are “friends on Facebook”). I don’t think this should be. Maybe I need to get on Facebook and become friends with all the people in the church that are on it (so I can effectively shepherd). I don’t know. It just seems to be a disconnect. Sure Paul wrote letters to communicate with churches and we do have amazing gifts in technology. But there is still something unique about practicing the one anothers with, well, one another. How can these be balanced?

Elder’s Meeting Help

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Jim Elliff writes an excellent post on Elder’s Meeting That Do Something. His tips:
1. Plan for meeting together more often and for a longer period of time.
2. Challenge each other spiritually.
3. Discuss the state of the flock.
4. Have an agenda.
5. Actually pray for individuals and issues being faced.
6. Study together toward a unified position on difficult issues.
7. Make these meetings non-optional.

Are You Rocking Or Rowing the Boat?

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From Ed Stetzer:

In church life, the people that are rocking the boat are hardly ever the ones rowing it.

I think this has generally been my experience, although we can even get insight and learn from those who are doing the rocking. A godly view of Biblical criticism is a must for church life.

Recap – Will of God

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Today’s sermon from Colossians 1:10 entitled “Walking in the Will of God” is up and online. Continuing the thought he began in 1:9, Paul elaborates and unpacks what walking in God’s will looks like. This morning, specifically, the characteristics of those walking in God’s will are:
1) They live to please the Lord
2) They are blossoming in good deeds
3) They are growing in their knowledge of God

I thought these principles can be applied in many ways…

These are great things to pray for another believer.
They are great characteristics to pursue.
We can have confidence that, as we practice them, we are “walking in God’s will.”

Any thoughts?

Help For Young Families…

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I also found this post by Zach Nielsen helpful…

He’s asked by a young married guy with kids how he organizes his life.
The summary:

1. As you do, I have a rockstar, off the chart, amazing wife.

2. We don’t watch much T.V.

3. We are very intentional about doing things WITH the kids.

4. One of the things we have learned from another family is the idea of “special dates” with the kids individually.

5. Your stage is really hard. Having a toddler and a new baby is very physically demanding.

6. As our kids get older, I’m sure we’ll limit their activities.

7. In the end, I think you just sort of get used to the chaos.

8. There certainly are times when we feel like we are losing it.

9. I think your feelings of “insanity” are somewhat relative (which isn’t to dismiss them).

Read the entire post for elaboration.