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The Word of Affection

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After some time in the hospital, recovery, and more time off, I was happy to be back preaching at Crestview on March 16, 2025. This sermon continued in a series of sermons we’re giving during the season of Lent so that all our focus as a church is on Jesus. This series considers the seven sayings of Jesus from the cross. My sermon, The Word of Affection, looked at Jesus speaking to His mother and the disciple He loved in John 19. This call to love draws us from ourselves into the kind of living and power only Jesus can give. I hope this sermon encourages you.

Weekend Recap – Love Perfected

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My 12/27/15AM sermon, Love Perfected from 1 John 4:17-21, is now online.  Just like we’d expect to be chilled walking outside on a day with a 5 degree wind chill or be satisfied after eating at a buffet, we can expect that when God moves into our lives with His love, things will be affected.  His love perfected in us, means we can expect certain things to characterize our lives.  These are what I tease out of this passage.  Hope it helps you.

Weekend Preview – Love Perfected

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This coming Sunday (12/27/15), we’ll be back in 1 John again, studying 1 John 4:17-21.  The big idea is God perfecting love in us and what it means.  I love how Paul Tripp summarizes it: “the longer you walk with God…the more loving you become.”  What a great way to end the year, thinking about God working love in His people.  I hope to see you this Sunday.

On Syria, Immigration and Some Things To Think About…

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Lots of conversation is happening about the Christian view on welcoming Syrian refugees.  Some Christians say we shouldn’t put ourselves in positions of danger (however elusive that category is).  Other say, it’s simple: we love others so we should welcome them.  Here’s an article and a video that get at some things to Christians may think about…

First off, Kevin DeYoung wrote on how Immigration Policy Must Be Based on More Than An Appeal to Compassion.  One part that stood out to me in this:

Our church has always had a vibrant international ministry and we’ve rallied around families trying to work through the labyrinth of U.S. immigration policies so they can stay in the country legally. I too am turned off by the harsh anti-immigrant rhetoric that sounds more like Pharaoh in Exodus 1 than the “love the sojourner” commands in Deuteronomy 10. It is a commendable response to see hurting people and think, “Let’s do all we can to help.”
And yet, this good Christian impulse runs the risk of taking an extremely complex geo-political, international crisis and reducing it to pious platitudes about showing compassion to the least of these and not giving in to fear. As I said at the beginning, I don’t have a plan to fix our broken immigration system and I don’t know the “correct” number of Syrian refugees to welcome into the country, but I do think there is more than one way for a Christian to approach these issues.

But, read the whole thing and make up your own mind.  There is a tension here, it seems.

I was also helped by this video, though.  Take 5 minutes and consider this counsel:

I hope these things are helpful to you as you seek to navigate this difficult issue.

Weekend Recap – The Law of Love

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My 7/12/15AM sermon, Law of Love from 1 John 2:7-11 is now online.  The key to our being the loving people we’ve been commanded to be isn’t from digging deep, getting a positive vibe going or dialing in to the right mojo.  The key is abiding in Jesus.  This passage helps connect those who love with why they love: they know Jesus.  I hope it helps you.

Love Is

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Forrest Gump famously said, “I may not be a smart man, but I know what love is.”  While we may have a good idea of what love is, I was helped just today, when someone drew my attention to this article on 23 Things That Love Is by Paul Tripp (and the one forwarding it to me reminded me to be reminded of this while I’m shopping for card, flowers or candy for my valentine):

  1. LOVE IS… being willing to have your life complicated by the needs and struggles of others without impatience or anger.
  2. LOVE IS… actively fighting the temptation to be critical and judgmental toward another while looking for ways to encourage and praise.
  3. LOVE IS… making a daily commitment to resist the needless moments of conflict that come from pointing out and responding to minor offenses.
  4. LOVE IS… being lovingly honest and humbly approachable in times of misunderstanding.
  5. LOVE IS… being more committed to unity and understanding than you are to winning, accusing, or being right.
  6. LOVE IS… a making a daily commitment to admit your sin, weakness, and failure and to resist the temptation to offer an excuse or shift the blame.
  7. LOVE IS… being willing, when confronted by another, to examine your heart rather than rising to your defense or shifting the focus.
  8. LOVE IS… making a daily commitment to grow in love so that the love you offer to another is increasingly selfless, mature, and patient.
  9. LOVE IS… being unwilling to do what is wrong when you have been wronged, but looking for concrete and specific ways to overcome evil with good.
  10. LOVE IS… being a good student of another, looking for their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs so that in some way you can remove the burden, support them as they carry it, or encourage them along the way.
  11. LOVE IS… being willing to invest the time necessary to discuss, examine, and understand the relational problems you face, staying on task until the problem is removed or you have agreed upon a strategy of response.
  12. LOVE IS… being willing to always ask for forgiveness and always being committed to grant forgiveness when it is requested.
  13. LOVE IS… recognizing the high value of trust in a relationship and being faithful to your promises and true to your word.
  14. LOVE IS… speaking kindly and gently, even in moments of disagreement, refusing to attack the other person’s character or assault their intelligence.
  15. LOVE IS… being unwilling to flatter, lie, manipulate, or deceive in any way in order to co-opt the other person into giving you what you want or doing something your way.
  16. LOVE IS… being unwilling to ask another person to be the source of your identity, meaning, and purpose, or inner sense of well-being, while refusing to be the source of theirs.
  17. LOVE IS… the willingness to have less free time, less sleep, and a busier schedule in order to be faithful to what God has called you to be and to do as a spouse, parent, neighbor, etc.
  18. LOVE IS… a commitment to say no to selfish instincts and to do everything that is within your ability to promote real unity, functional understanding, and active love in your relationships.
  19. LOVE IS… staying faithful to your commitment to treat another with appreciation, respect, and grace, even in moments when the other person doesn’t seem deserving or is unwilling to reciprocate.
  20. LOVE IS… the willingness to make regular and costly sacrifices for the sake of a relationship without asking for anything in return or using your sacrifices to place the other person in your debt.
  21. LOVE IS… being unwilling to make any personal decision or choice that would harm a relationship, hurt the other person, or weaken the bond of trust between you.
  22. LOVE IS… refusing to be self-focused or demanding, but instead looking for specific ways to serve, support, and encourage, even when you are busy or tired.
  23. LOVE IS… daily admitting to yourself, the other person, and God that you are unable to be driven by a cruciform love without God’s protecting, providing, forgiving, rescuing, and delivering grace.

Weekend Recap – Gospel Love

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My 11/30/14AM sermon, Gospel Love from Romans 14:13-23, is now online.  The sermon sought to unpack the inward, upward, and outward calls of love to others.  We must consider our conscience, esteem God’s kingdom and live out our faith for love to have the grace shaped character it’s meant to have.  I hope this sermon helps nurture that in you.

Weekend Recap – Genuine Love

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My 11/2/14AM sermon, Genuine Love from Romans 12:9-21, is now online.  Many of us think that we’re much more loving that we actually are.  And the Bible is like a mirror that we hold up to show us our true selves.  In this passage, we see that genuine love is on the move, acting in ways that are challenging for many of us.  We are demonstrating love to believers.  This is the call at the first part of our passage and it’s difficult. But, towards the end of the passage, we’re called to love our enemies, which is impossible for us apart from the mobilizing grace of God.  So, I hope this sermon is helpful as you seek to love the way God’s called you to love.

Love and Strategic Recklessness

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Here’s a post I wrote that appeared on our church’s mission blog (the CBC H2Go blog) today:

One of our mission team’s core values is that we’d be strategically reckless:  forsaking our security/comforts in this life for the everlasting joy that’s found in Christ.  It seems we’re giving up so much, but then, again, when we consider what we’re gaining (Christ) it’s really nothing.  I was thinking about how this relates to love.  Love is risky.  Love is saying “no” to ourselves and laying our lives down in service to others.  For this reason, Paul commanded the Romans to “owe no one anything except to love each other, for the one who loves one another has fulfilled the law” (Romans 13:8).  In other words, when we love, we are so in tune with God’s heart that it can be said of us that we are obeying all that God intends for us.  

Love.  It seems so easy, yet is a very costly thing.  Today, how might love inspire your strategic recklessness?  How does Christ’s love compel us to be loving in our actions?  Let’s step out as a strategically reckless people in love. 

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I would add that today the Christian church celebrates Love.  Maundy Thursday is about that new commandment that Jesus gave that we love one another.  This really connects well with this theme I wrote about for the Missions blog.  Hope you’re inspired by the love of Christ, which is controlling you, to be the loving people you’re called to be.