For today’s Marriage Monday post, I thought I would address the issue of communication and the heart. This past Friday at HomeWord, I preached a sermon from Matthew 12:33-37. In that text, Jesus is addressing the Pharisees who are opposing Him and saying His works are Satan’s. In responding to them, He demonstrates a vital principle about communication–it is birthed in the heart.

At one point in my sermon I said:

The problem is our hearts. Do you recognize your heart is the problem in conflict? Maybe you are into the Love Language crowd and think that if your love tank could be filled, this conflict wouldn’t ensue? The reality for us is that our problems are much deeper than an empty love tank. We are sinners. Our hearts are wicked. When there is conflict, there is a problem in our desires (according to James 4:1ff). We need the Gospel. We need Christ to come into our hearts and change them. Then we will respond with grace in situations. Then our speech will be affected. Only after our hearts are changed can we effectively communicate to the glory of God.

I would simply exhort you if you are having communication breakdowns to pay attention to your hearts:
1) Love the Lord your God with all your heart — center your heart on God.
2) Keep your heart with all diligence — Proverbs 4:23 encourages this. Your heart must be something you are consistently working on.
3) Pray that “the words of your mouth and the meditation of your heart” (Psalm 19:14) are pleasing to God. Throughout the Bible words are fused and related to the heart.

Encourage God-glorifying communication with deep pursuit of a heart that is fixed on Him.

Last night, as a church we gathered and watched Tim Keller’s message at the 2006 Desiring God National Conference entitled, “The Supremacy of Christ and the Gospel in a Postmodern World.” One area that I received a lot of feedback about was how Keller deconstructed defeaters. In this link, Keller is answering some of these. You might also look out for Keller’s forthcoming book, The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism. Anyone care to post some thoughts on what stuck out to them from Keller’s compelling message?

For the first time, I am reading (at a slow pace too) Bryan Chapell’s outstanding book Christ Centered Preaching. In chapter 1, Word and Witness, he is discussing how expository preaching presents the work of the Spirit and highlights our need to be dependent on the Spirit of God. He continues:

Public ministry true to God’s purposes requires devoted private prayer. We should not expect our words to acquaint others with the power of the Spirit if we have not met with him. Faithful preachers plead for God to work as well as for their own accuracy, integrity, and skill in proclaiming his Word. Success in the pulpit ca be the force that leads a preacher from prayerful dependence on the Spirit. Congregational accolades for pulpit excellence may tempt one to put too much confidence in personal gifts, acquired skills, or a particular method of preaching. Succumbing to such a temptation is evidenced not so much by a change in belief as by a change in practice. Neglect of prayer signals serious deficiencies in a ministry even if other signs of success have not diminished. We must always remember that popular acclaim is not necessarily the same as spiritual effectiveness.

Cited in Chapell, Bryan. Christ Centered Preaching, Second Edition. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Academic, 2005. p.33

Chapell’s words were sobering to me as I ponder my weak prayer life. I need to be devoted and reliant upon God as the gauge of my success rather than any feedback I receive from people.

In case you missed it, the new 9Marks E-Journal is online and covers the subject of corporate prayer. I hope to be encouraged with a thorough reading of it. Download it as a PDF or view it online.

Yes, we are still gone. We enjoyed spending the Lord’s Day at my Mom’s church. The SS lesson focused on God’s greatness from Psalm 145. Her pastor is preaching through Genesis, so was encouraged with a word on Jacob leaving Beersheba for Egypt (in Genesis 45).

As for other things, we are relaxing and really enjoying the slow pace here. Other than some time off in September, it’s been a busy Fall/Christmas season. We’ve been doing some odd things with Andrew, visited a former church my dad pastored, watched movies, and READ.

Got the blog updated with a new look and also got some resolutions written for the coming year. I’m using McCheyne’s Bible Reading Plan this year with D.A. Carson’s book (For the Love of God). I also enjoyed praying with the people of Crestview during our Week of Prayer. So, have been busy, but am enjoying vacation.

We have 2 more days of rest and are traveling back on Wednesday.

With the busyness of this holiday season coupled with my fervent attempt to get lots of work done with the day of Celebration tomorrow, wedding this weekend, and traveling Sunday for holiday at my Mom’s, I am going to take an official break from blogging. While I’m out, I may tweak design and some things like that, and hope to return after the first of the year with official, regular posts. You might keep an eye on the church website for upcoming sermons. Have a great New Year as well!

Yesterday morning was a great time in God’s Word. To think that “God sent His Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, that we might receive adoption as sons” is a staggering thought.

I hope you can celebrate the joy of God’s Son, the Savior, being sent for you. Have a blessed holiday and a Merry Christmas.

I am thoroughly enjoying prepping for this Sunday’s sermon, which will come from Galatians 4:4-5. The commentary that I most enjoy is the NAC volume by Timothy George. Commenting on the eternal nature of Christ he says, “Christ did not begin to be the Son of God at Bethlehem, or the Jordan River, or at his resurrection or ascension. He is the ‘only-begotten God’ resident in the ‘bosom of the Father’ from all eternity (John 1:18; 17:1-10)… God sent his Son not just from Galilee to Jerusalem, nor just from the manger to the cross, but all the way from heaven to earth…In sending Jesus, God did not send a substitute or a surrogate. He came himself.” These are just very high and lofty thoughts to be enjoyed during this holiday season.

An Andrew Peterson song begins, “Gather round ye children, come, listen to an old, old story: of the power of death undone by an infant of glory — Son of God, Son of Man. So sing out with joy for the brave little boy who was God but made Himself nothing. Well, He gave up His pride and He came here to die like a man.”

I hope you can stand in awe of the incarnation. The eternal God himself sent His Son, fully God, fully man and fully able to save us to the uttermost.

Praise Christ this Christmas.

My Mom’s favorite baseball player, Pete Rose, (said with great sarcasm) says steroid users are damaging the game of baseball. Like Tim Ellsworth said, (HT to him by the way), “Good grief.” How did the ol’ phrase go? Something about a pot calling the kettle black???

For the free audio emphasis of the week, I would recommend listening to this year’s advent poems by John Piper. As the website suggests, “Beginning in 1982, as a gift to Bethlehem Baptist Church, John Piper has written poems for each of the four Sundays of Advent. They are mostly stories from the lives of biblical characters who find their lives intertwined with significant events in redemptive history. Also included here are poems that Piper has written for other occasions.” They are entertaining and well worth a listen. And, running about 7 minutes each, are easily grabbed quickly.

Thanks again to Desiring God for making Piper’s resources free and available to all. This year’s poems focus on Nicodemus (coinciding with Piper’s series on the new birth.

Nicodemus, Part 1
Nicodemus, Part 2
Nicodemus, Part 3