Musing on Psalm 27:7a, (“Hear my voice when I call, O Lord; be merciful to me and answer me.”) Paul Tripp answers the question, Why does God answer my prayers:
1) Because of His love
2) Because of His grace
3) Because of His faithfulness
4) For the sake of His kingdom
5) For His glory
This article is a helpful encouragement for us to cry out to God in prayer. Therefore, pray!
Yes, I’m here in Sterling again for some study and long term planning. Yesterday, God was very gracious and I was able to make some headway on a few projects. I did get a basic preaching schedule outlined for the year. Also got a project done for the elders. I finished designing a camp brochure for our students. Also did some general brainstorming on ministries, seeking ways that we could more effectively “glorify and enjoy God forever, through Jesus Christ.” All is all, it was a pretty good day. Today, I hope to finish my Sunday sermon and do some more long term planning and spend time in prayer. I was encouraged by a sermon by Mike Bullmore yesterday on “Loving the Local Church.” Today, I also listened to some “classic C.J. on ‘Pay Attention to What You Hear'” from New Attitude 2003. These are some good days from God and God is using my time here in remarkable ways.
At the New Attitude website, they have some incredible free audio available online. I would highly recommend Dever’s message on “The Importance of the Local Church.”
…what you hear.
A friend of mine is doing some work on a doctoral dissertation and needs our help. He has an online survey which examines how we listen to expository messages. The site, Expository Listening, would be worth your time to check out.
Last year, I heard a very convicting sermon from Mike Bullmore entitled, “Watch Your Planning: The Strategic Role of Personal Retreats“. Among other things, I was really convicted of my need to get away and prayerfully consider ministry at the local church and to begin to think and pray about long term preaching goals, where and how God is working in our church and other things. So, that brings me to Sterling (College) today and tomorrow. In their library, they have study rooms where I can get alone and secluded. In this time, I am trusting God to meet me as I draw near to Him. There is a good bit of work I have planned to accomplish, but I really just want to commune with my Father and prayerfully seek direction for the coming short-term and ask God for a vision for the long-term. If you read this, would you pray that God would draw near to me in this moment. Ask God to keep my distractions minimal and my aim on Him. I’ll update tomorrow on what I’ve done/learned.
In his book Brothers, We Are Not Professionals, John Piper urges pastors to love their wives. Included in this chapter is a poem written for his son Karsten when he was married. This line stuck out:
A double rule of love that shocks;
A doctrine in a paradox:
If you now aim your wife to bless,
Then love her more and love her less.
What is Piper getting at with these seemingly bizarre words? He is giving us some great, God-centered encouragement for how love for our spouses can be nurtured.
I would say at the outset here, that men, we are to take the lead in this. Our cue in loving our wives comes from Christ and the self-sacrificing, devoted love He displayed for His bride, the church. Men this is especially true of us.
Women, you aren’t exempt either. The teaching that accords with sound doctrine in Titus 2:1 involves training women to love their husbands. There are women who have misunderstandingly tried to appropriate their role as being submissive and respectful, but not loving. This isn’t a Scriptural notion. Women, nurture love for your husband.
Now, back to Piper, how does this happen.
1) It means loving your spouse more than you love yourself. You to put him or her above your own selfish desires. This is the essence of what love is in 1 Corinthians 13. If you want to have love for your spouse that is good and healthy, you have to die to the selfish things you want.
2) It means loving your spouse less than you love Jesus Christ. Don’t idolize your spouse. Don’t break the second commandment and put them above Jesus. Love Jesus supremely and the overflow of that love be a heartfelt, passionate love for your spouse.
So, as Piper would say, we confess and agree…
If you now aim your wife to bless,
Then lover her more and love her less.
Our leadership team has been really impressed with Tim Keller’s sermons and writings. Recently, Justin Taylor interviewed Keller about his upcoming book. It looks and sounds very exciting.
For today’s free audio of the week, I return to Piper. Piper preached a sermon entitled “Receive With Meekness the Implanted Word” on Sunday, January 6. Like our church, Piper’s church does a prayer week. The first Sunday is a sermon on prayer and the second is one on the Word of God. This was why this sermon was so encouraging to me. Healthy prayers (or in the case of our recent emphasis, Spiritual prayers) without the steady and life-giving flow that comes from God’s Word. Check out this sermon for yourself.
For today’s Marriage Monday post, I thought I would address the issue of communication and the heart. This past Friday at HomeWord, I preached a sermon from Matthew 12:33-37. In that text, Jesus is addressing the Pharisees who are opposing Him and saying His works are Satan’s. In responding to them, He demonstrates a vital principle about communication–it is birthed in the heart.
At one point in my sermon I said:
The problem is our hearts. Do you recognize your heart is the problem in conflict? Maybe you are into the Love Language crowd and think that if your love tank could be filled, this conflict wouldn’t ensue? The reality for us is that our problems are much deeper than an empty love tank. We are sinners. Our hearts are wicked. When there is conflict, there is a problem in our desires (according to James 4:1ff). We need the Gospel. We need Christ to come into our hearts and change them. Then we will respond with grace in situations. Then our speech will be affected. Only after our hearts are changed can we effectively communicate to the glory of God.
I would simply exhort you if you are having communication breakdowns to pay attention to your hearts:
1) Love the Lord your God with all your heart — center your heart on God.
2) Keep your heart with all diligence — Proverbs 4:23 encourages this. Your heart must be something you are consistently working on.
3) Pray that “the words of your mouth and the meditation of your heart” (Psalm 19:14) are pleasing to God. Throughout the Bible words are fused and related to the heart.
Encourage God-glorifying communication with deep pursuit of a heart that is fixed on Him.
Last night, as a church we gathered and watched Tim Keller’s message at the 2006 Desiring God National Conference entitled, “The Supremacy of Christ and the Gospel in a Postmodern World.” One area that I received a lot of feedback about was how Keller deconstructed defeaters. In this link, Keller is answering some of these. You might also look out for Keller’s forthcoming book, The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism. Anyone care to post some thoughts on what stuck out to them from Keller’s compelling message?
