Last night in small groups, I was really encouraged with the chapter that C.J. wrote on “Why Small Groups?” One question in the chapter that stood out above all was this one — “Is there someone who can (and does) question your motives and ask for an explanation of your actions when appropriate?” I am so thankful that God, in His grace, has given me a spouse who can and does do this very thing. This isn’t to say that Meg is perfect, but she is a faithful friend in that regard. Many times she is my Nathan, there to point me back to the truth.
Is your spouse able to do this in your life? How do you react when he/she points these things out? What is your reaction to the process of holiness being furthered through your spouse? These questions really reveal our hearts. Allow your spouse to be able to be used by God for your holiness.