I’ve used Paul Tripp’s What Did You Expect? to walk with people in pre-marital, marriage enrichment, or marriage class about 5 times since it came out and continue to commend it.
As he begins in session 1 of this, he says “A marriage of unity, understanding, and love is not rooted in romance; it is rooted in worship.” As you think about your relationship, how is worship affecting you? We must put our identity over our activity (to quote Tripp again). We won’t honor God in our marriages until we honor God in our marriages. He must be supreme.
Today, look at what your heart is revealing as the true source of worship and see if this isn’t just part of what God is seeking to change in you.